Dating & Relationships

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Get outta my space!

- June 29, 2012

I met a man to potentially introduce to my client. I was on the fence as to the caliber of this guy, but know what clinched it for me that he was a no?? The way he shook my hand when we parted! When I first met him, I received a normal handshake. At the [...]

Criteria and more criteria

- June 2, 2012

I blame online dating for making people choosy. When you “create” the person you are looking for based upon 30+ choices (height,weight, eye color, hair color, etc.), you come to believe that exact person exists. I find that people who rely so heavily on these criteria are reluctant to meet someone who doesn’t have all [...]

Ditch the List!

- May 23, 2012

Following is a wish list from a would-be Client (typos included!): Im looking for a 5’7-5’11 white skinned, dirty blonde hair (not platinum), blue eyes, lean beautiful woman. I would like her face and overall appearance to resemble that of a Blake Lively. I would like her to have a fair job atleast in which [...]

First dates aren’t interviews!

- May 14, 2012

I can’t tell you how many woman have complained they felt interviewed during a first date. Yes, it can be awkward and some questions are necessary, but please, learn to expand on the answers before asking the next one! Here are some example first-date questions and potential replies in order to expand and turn them [...]

Fear of rejection?

- April 29, 2012

I had a conversation with Sophie, who is a lesbian. Sophie was telling me how difficult it is to pick up a woman in a casual atmosphere. For example, if a woman is smiling at Sophie in a coffee shop, is it because she likes her Sophie’s shoes, is she just being friendly, or is [...]

How light is your baggage?

- April 19, 2012

At the top of each of my clients’ wish list: find me someone with no baggage. That’s pretty impossible since we all have some, but let’s make sure it’s not too much! Baggage can be defined as the pain and negative experiences you are carrying around from your past relationship(s). People who are unable to [...]

How many times should you date someone before knowing it isn’t going further than friendship?

- April 12, 2012

I have worked with countless clients who after One date tell me they didn’t feel “it” and don’t want to see the person again. First dates are tough. It’s a borderline interview with sometimes awkward silence. Seriously, who is at their best on a first date? Second dates are so much more relaxing. It is [...]

Women using escort services

- April 6, 2012

I received a call this week from a TV network who is doing a piece on a company who offers escort services for women. The network was asking for my opinion as to why women would utilize such a service and if there is a shortage of men to date. Women have come a long [...]

Valentine’s Day Ideas in Boston

- March 20, 2012

In the mood for love? It’s one of the most romantic holidays of the year. Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, and there are plenty of fun things to do around Boston. Whether you’re looking for a great date idea, a new way to meet people, or just something creative to do, here are some options.

Why are You Still Single?

- March 20, 2012

Are you attractive, successful and ready for a commitment? You are a great catch, and you are still single. Why is it so hard to meet the right person? Because you are going about it the right way. A professional matchmaker is what you need.